Motivation

So I’ve been watching a lot of “love” movies a lot lately. What I can say is I learned a lot from it. It does help me with the healing process. I know right? Ridiculous but it does. Really help me a lot. It’s true that when you stop searching or expecting the least it will appear. So just focus on something else that can make you happy. 

Being in love is indeed the most bazaar feelings ever. It cannot be describable, those who ever felt it know what or how does it feels like. One minute your happy one minute you’re choked up. There is many definition of love I can put it in my post but for me love is indescribable. 

So why do us find it hard to move forward? Simple, it’s because you don’t want to. You don’t want to let go the person who once made you happy and deep inside you’re still hoping that they will come back to you and said “I’ve made a big mistake of letting you go.” Stop it, stop having that kind of thoughts because you deserves to be happy. I know, easy for me to write it here but hell no was it easy to do. 

Trust me, I’ve tried. None of it working and believe me if you think finding someone new and hoping that he/she could fill in the position of replacing your past then you’re dead wrong. Don’t ever make someone else your rebound that’s disgusting.  Don’t straight away and decide to have a relationship if you’re not over your past. Eventually you’ll get confused of your own emotions. Been there done that.

Just try to focus on something you’re doing right now for example if you’re studying then focus on how you would wanna to aces all of your subjects. If you’re working then focus on getting a promotion or something. When you at the least of expecting it to come to you it will. God is planning a better for you. So just have fun with your life. Stop making grief your best friends instead spend time more with your real best friends. 

They do have the magic of making you happy or perhaps with your family. Everything happened for a reason. Whether you realize it or not. So here I am trying my best to hold on and probably gasping to breathe in this cruel cruel life. I was indeed broken but I’m not entirely shattered. I believe that my time will come but any sooner. Eventually I will get the answer of my question “does soulmate really exist or is it just an exaggerating crap?” Don’t let anything stop you from being happy.

 There are plenty of other reasons for you to be happy. Mark my word! You’ve just gotta explore more on that. I already found mine. No not a new guy silly but surrounding myself with awesome people like my best friends. I couldn’t ask for more. I hope you’ll find yours soon. 

LATER~

10 tips to know He(she) is into you

1. He(she) exchanged no phone/YM/skype
2. He(she) will always contact you even in a the most ridiculous way. Ex; They call just to say HI and hang up.
3. He(she) is driving, eating, taking a bath, hanging out with friends and still texting you. That's mean it is obvious.
4. He(she) constantly teasing you. That's a good hint. Guys especially find it difficult for them to be honest that they like you instead of saying sweet words to you they will tease you. That's just the way they want to say "Hey I'm into you and making you annoyed is all I'm good at".
5. He(she) is willing to meet you no matter how busy/how far he(she) is.
6. You suddenly become the most important person that he(she) will tell about almost everything to.
7. Try not to contact with he(she) and see if he(she) will find you. See the amount of effort they'll give to find you. If they do contact you then its all good if they don't try harder.
8. Look at his(her) facebook wall if you're the only opposite sex who is constantly wall-ing him(her) then its a good sign.
9. He(she) told you that they've never told anyone what he(she) have told you. You're lucky cause he(she) think you're special and trust you.
10. Last but not list, when you went out on a date with he(she) they only focus on you and not other attractive woman(guys). He(she) is soooo into you.

HOW TO TELL IF HE(SHE) IS A NO NO?

1.  Look through his(her) facebook wall, if there are tons of opposite sex calling him(her) by name such as saying,baby,b,honey,etc then you should stop crushing on him(her)
2. If he(she) tells you he(she) is philophobia;fear of falling in love. No kidding! Don’t try your luck. They’re a mess, trust me you don’t want to be his(her) rebound.
3. Ask if his(her) previous relationship is a nightmare broke up or it was a good one. If it’s a nightmare chances are you’re gonna end up like that as well.
4. He(she) constantly gives you sweet words that sometimes are really ridiculous. They only want attention rather than expressing their true feelings.
5.  When you get to know him(her) less than a month and they’ve came on a lil too strong. RUN FAST! They might be a psycho or worst serial rapper!
6. If you were never his(her) priority then you should leave. What’s even worse than being someone else options or second best? Think wisely.
7. If you’re the only one who pays every time you went out on a date. Get the hell out of the mess. Gold Digger alert!
8.  If he(she) suddenly become overprotective, possessive, jealous (supreme), stalker, clingy and etc. Leave before if it’s too late to do so.
9. If he(she) starts to tell you what and what not to do. Don’t hesitate to leave. They might gonna to be your worst nightmare. [been there done that]
10. He(she) said they’re out of your league. Self esteem can turn out to be an outrage later on. Be careful.