Precaution

I just found an awful news.my cousin who i think is 26 or 25 this year is about to divorce.after 4 years of marriage and 3 kids they're about to divorce.why?cause her husband apparently is a drug addict.so what i've been told.im in shocked.and im sympathize of what had happen.i know what she's been through.its hard of course.can you imagine?being a single mother at a very young age with 3 kids?i cant imagine my self being in her shoe.of course shit happens.

This is why i've been so careful of finding my soulmates.dont blame us women for being too selective.i mean come on.how do u expect we want to accept someone who have no future?forgive me for being rude or obnoxious.but dude this is the reality this is the fact.if you dont have a good education background, no effort to find a stable job, lazy, drug addict, womanizer, pervert sex maniac, whines practically everything about your so called "unfair" life, party animal who drinks a lot, don't even bother to know anything about your religion and so on please don't even bother to find a "future wife". maybe at the age of 18 or 19 you can be all that immature but once you're at this very point of maturity you need to be considering of all this matter.

You can't blame us by calling us as a materialistic.come on?who wants or needs a loser in their life?we dont need to babysit anyone.use your brain to think about your future.and stop thinking about having fun.by going to club every weekend?damaging your body and brain by drinking and taking drugs you think that is what fun is is it?wise move dude.seriously you'll regret it after wards.im so sick of meeting this type of guys.they have no future at all.im not trying to be mean but i need to write this so that people know and hopefully will open their eyes of what idiotic things they did.you may disagree with what im saying here its your call but this is my opinion.im done with this type of dudes.this type of guy will lead to what our country is actually facing.abortion.young couple divorce.depression.anak luar nikah.sigh.so think about it.do you really want to jeopardize your future just for having a so called "cool" "hip" "rich" but no future guy? LATER~